Thursday, 8 November 2012

"Get yourself an egg and beat it"

Whilst eating my brunch, I landed up doing the normal thing at the moment, of having Come Dine with  Me on in the background.

Come Dine with Me is one of those programmes that I originally chose to watch of an evening and these days, just land up watching whilst doing something else.

What is it about this programme that people like?  Initially, I would have said to get ideas for new things to cook.  But over time, it is just to watch the relationships of 4-5 people (depending on the episode/season), who are pushed together for a week and have to cook for each other.  Some of them don't even cook their own meals or have never cooked the dishes they have chosen to do that night - it's the weirdest rules ever.

My brother has filmed the Iranian version before and he said it is completely different.  It is filmed in London, but with arabic speaking contestants.  He said it is about the social experience and the food, but less bitchy.  It's hard to imagine this, as in our version, people expect the contestants not to get on with each other and if they are all nice, we seem to enjoy it less.

Who can forget the women in one of the first seasons who gave everyone 4 or less points because she obviously wanted to win and landed up re-scoring (cos she was told to) and cried her eyes out on camera (this became one of those episodes that was repeated all the time - how embarrassing for her, lol).  Or how about the celebrity versions.  One of the most awkward ones being where Donny Osmond had a dwarf dressed up as Elvis to sing at the dinner table.  What spurred that idea?

Come Dine with Me has now been on since the start of 2005, so I suppose they have to choose funny contestants and people that will clash, otherwise we may stop loving it and thus, it will stop airing.  But what else keeps us watching?

I suppose the other thing is, is that we all like to see an everyday person mess up - we all mess up at some point or another and it always feels better when someone else is involved.  I mean we have had people throw things on the floor, burn things to a crisp and even one episode where someone undercooked their egg dish and someone ran up the stairs to throw up - yes, apparently, this is entertainment!

I have to say though, for me, it has now lost something.  Its not that I don't like watching people in  this kind of show, it's just there are other shows that give me more enjoyment.  For instance, Dinner Date, where three people cook separate meals at their homes, in order to try and secure a 2nd date with the 4th person or Four in a Bed, the programme where 4 B & B owners visit the other establishments to decide between them, which one is the best.

The thing is, Come Dine with Me has opened the doors to newer, fresher programmes, that offer us the same amount of bitchy and cringeworthy TV.  So for many of us, we have just moved on.

I don't think it's over for CDWM yet (as it still has so many fans) but I think the competition is getting stronger from other programmes and can they really continue serving up a good TV dish - only time will tell!


Post title comes from: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcJjMnHoIBI

Tuesday, 6 November 2012

"They are gonna rip up your heads, your aspirations to shreds"

I apologise for the long pause since my 30th birthday.  I've had lots to sort out as well as feeling old and fighting flu : s

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Today I had a rather unexpected invite - it was to a college reunion.  Now for someone that did not enjoy education until university asides from extra curricular, the sight of a reunion invite is not overly welcome.  Don't get me wrong, it's nice to be thought of, but I don't want to go, lol.  Luckily for this particular one, I'm busy with work, which is a perfect cover for my real feelings.

College and secondary were always a tie on which one was worse.  I was bullied halfway through secondary (which was a really difficult time) but at college, it was more the fact of seeing other people taking it tough from class mates - overall, not good.

Some people's college years were really happy, but mine was just another reason to dream about being an adult and going to work - something I'd always quite wanted to do, as I'd been reasonably mature from a young age.  

My biggest problem with college was that in some cases our teachers were worse than the pupils.  Several of the teaching staff not only stood by the bullies of our class, but also constantly told me what I should be doing with my life (move out of home - even though I was 17 with no money, go to university).  I suppose I should be glad they weren't telling me to get laid, but who knows what they would have said if I'd stayed another year. 

The problem with college was I was doing a Performing Arts course with people that mainly didn't love the arts in the way I did.  I wasn't doing it for fame or money, I was doing it for the passion I had had for it since I was young and couldn't imagine doing anything else.  There were several of my class who were serious about it (several who I am still in contact with now) but unfortunately we were mainly over ruled by the ones that weren't.  Although acting was my third strain of interest, I actually enjoyed drama, I just felt I wasn't supported by my class at college and just lost more and more interest as the course went on.  I also had the fact that I was still doing weekend stage school where I liked most the people and was enjoying the practical sessions much more than college.  We also got to perform in professional theatres, which was much nicer than a "drama hall" with curtains and massive cotton reels (imagine that it's Willy Wonka's Factory, lol) and gave us better experience of the theatrical world.

The thing is reunions are great for the showoffs and the people with the great memories, but for so many people, the past wasn't so bright and the present is what they are enjoying now - who wants to go backwards?  Besides, I'm not the person I was at college and I'm quite glad.  It was the start of my adult journey where I was getting to grips with who I wanted to be and not enough mistakes had been made til after this time - I like the person I am now a lot more.

So I hope my class have a great night, remembering all the things I like to forget, but I'll be working with the stars that night baby and for once, I wouldn't change it for the world : )


Blog title inspired by: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6EQAOmJrbw